The problem about being nice,easy-going and etc is that, usually people try to push you up. And sometimes I’m a pushover, sometimes i ignore my wishes because i’m so worried about make the people i love happy, or just for the sake of not being scumbag. but the worst part is, that people who say to me most “you should learn how to say no, you shouldnt take everyone’s shit” are the people who would handle this attitude the least. Everytime i say no, or I demonstrate that im not happy with some situation, is like I’m a awful person, but in the other hand, i have to bare everyone’s crap. so i just want everyone to fuck off.